Post by RichAsianKid Post by email@example.com
Hi, instead of always complaining about why we see Asian girls dating
other race guys and always concentrating on the negative side of this,
what can we do as Asian males to become the leaders of our own domain
instead of the "victim" mentality of seeing an Asian girl not caring
about us Asian males and dissing us big time?
In other words, what can we do? Is it a matter of lack of
confidence? Is that the main issue? Because I know confidence is one
of the most attractive thing to a girl or to anyone. So what is it?
What practical steps can we take to step up to the plate and hit that
home run and not just sit on the sidelines like the Whimps that some of
us have been and some of us have been complaining about?
I'm tired of not doing anything, so what could we do? Any Asian
Woman or Asian Male or any race person advice would be helpful.
1. $ works best - there is no mincing of words here - if you're poor
you're at a really perhaps permanent disadvantage (I'm in for the sex
so it's not important whether they really love you or not - it's not a
long time relationship anyway) -- btw there is in fact reason for this
- sociobiological - to produce children men only need a few minutes & a
'loving spoonful' of semen; women need 9 months & maybe a few months of
breast milk (hey I didn't make these things up - these are written in
textbooks. I love biology)
I'm now replying to my own posts. Not a good sign. Like that other guy
in scc or somewhere. Anyway to clarify that's why I think women have a
reason to love guys who are rich. Women do the work, and guys have to
compensate in the form of resources.
Wife = very expensive
Girlfriend = less expensive
One night stand = cheap
Used to be this way.....but with contraception, reproductive success is
no longer hinged with mating success. But these residual urges are
still present. By the way, how many of you prefer rich old women? They
cannot reproduce anymore. News show us however routinely that top
ranking rich old men prefer younger trophy wives, even if they are
Post by RichAsianKid
2. Good looks wouldn't hurt (again, surrogate marker for genetic
health -- I'm treating this as a scientific newsgroup; I gotta sound
like a geek!)
Spent time to search this. OK. Let's elaborate on this. If you look
like this very cute asian, I think $ will not buy you too much in the
market at all.
An eurasian gf of mine said I should highlight all my hair bleach
blonde as that would look really 'cute' on me. Hmmmm.
I did a search on this and actually this look is quite popular in the
East. Take a look at this singer in Korea (again! I know! How many
times do I have to go into boybands [I think he's of a group there]!! I
guarantee that's not a fetish.)
Far East and North American ideals may be different.
Post by RichAsianKid
3. Surprisingly brains work - a gf of mine said the sexiest organ is
the brain (not like that T-shirt with black bold letters pointing out
at the navel: The man [arrow up] The legend [arrow down])
Few men would want women smart for brief flings I guess. (A wife may be
different) I find the stereotypical dumb blonde chicks quite easy
actually. I'd also forgo those in the science department - especially
Caucasian brunettes in thick glasses. Many are not just butchy but
bitchy. They have been very indoctrinated with feminism and are quite
hostile to men and are really desperate for that Fields medal in math
or whatever to prove their worth. White women = more difficult than
Asian women if you are talking about this group.
Also, black women (not that I much desire them) seem quite difficult to
get (for Asians). But I don't know enough about this area.
Also, I've read in other newsgroups that many whites are envious of
blacks ('once you go black, you never go back') - especially lower
middle class women who love to date blacks. I don't know much about
this as I grew up in an area where there has not been a single black or
hispanic kid in my elementary or high school.
Post by RichAsianKid
4. Failing all that, occasionally a little research helps (what, I care
about the environment too! I'm an environmentalist! I care about the
Brazilian rainforest! Or: I love Impressionism. Claude Monet really
had artistic insight!) Sometimes be a little weaker. Reverse psych
See that hair dye comment above.
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